Why?

Posted on 29th July 2008 by christy in Random, Reflective

A few things that make me wonder why…

Why do I have to write a thank you card if I just said thank you?

Why do people, when asked, “Who was there?”  They begin with….”me…”?

Why road rage?

Why do I get a kick out of squirting my son with the water hose when he isn’t looking?

Why does mixing play dough colors bother me so much? 

Why do people still have mullets? 

Why is Harry Potter evil? 

Why do I feel the need to tell someone ”I know”?

Why do I stand in line at Starbucks for 20 minutes?

Why do people avoid sitting in the middle seat on an airplane?

Why sort socks?

Why do people call back before they check the message you just sent them?

Why wear make-up if your not going anywhere? 

Why are reality shows so stupid, but yet I watch them?

Why do people watch TV in their garage?

 

If you have any… I would love to hear them.

Through The Eyes Of A Child

Posted on 30th June 2008 by christy in Family, Random

I sometimes give Luke the camera…not too bad.

Feng Shui

Posted on 22nd May 2008 by christy in Random, Reflective

I didn’t know what this meant, other than on the decorating shows, so I looked it up.

Feng shui is an ancient Chinese practice believed to utilize the Laws of both Heaven, (astronomy), and Earth, (geography), to help one improve life by receiving positive Qi. The words ‘feng shui’ literally translates as “wind-water” in English, which is a cultural shorthand taken from the following passage of the Zhangshu (Book of Burial) by Guo Pu of the Jin Dynasty:

Most of today’s feng shui schools teach that it is the practice of arranging objects, (such as the internal placement of furniture in an environment,) to achieve harmony with one’s environment. It is also used for choosing a place to live, for plotting a burial site, and still others use it for agricultural planning. Proponents claim that feng shui has an effect on health, wealth and personal relationships; critics consider it a pseudoscience.

This is cool. I ran across this list of some Mental Feng Shui.

1. Give people more than they expect and do it cheerfully.

2. Marry a man/woman you love to talk to. As you get older, their
conversational skills will be as important as any other.

3. Don’t believe all you hear, spend all you have or sleep all you
want.

4. When you say, ‘I love you,’ mean it.

5. When you say, ‘I’m sorry,’ look the person in the eye.

6. Be engaged at least six months before you get married.

7. Believe in love at first sight.

8. Never laugh at anyone’s dreams. People who don’t have dreams don’t
have much.

9. Love deeply and passionately. You might get hurt but it’s the only
way to live life completely.

10. In disagreements, fight fairly. No name calling.

11. Don’t judge people by their relatives.

12. Talk slowly but think quickly.

13. When someone asks you a question you don’t want to answer,
smile and ask, ‘Why do you want to know?’

14. Remember that great love and great achievements involve great
risk.

15. Say ‘bless you’ when you hear someone sneeze.

16. When you lose, don’t lose the lesson.

17. Remember the three R’s: Respect for self; Respect for others;
and Responsibility for all your actions.

18. Don’t let a little dispute injure a great friendship.

19. When you realize you’ve made a mistake, take immediate steps to
correct it.

20. Smile when picking up the phone. The caller will hear it in your
voice.

21. Spend some time alone.

Hollywood

Posted on 20th April 2008 by christy in Friends, Random, Reflective

My husband and I recently went to LA for a little quick get-a-way. In our short stay we were able to see a lot. The crazies on Venice beach, the big houses in Beverly Hills, the palm trees, the Hollywood Walk of Fame and we even got to watch a movie being filmed. It was so much fun. As a theatre major I was very intrigued. Very!

As my husband was getting a tattoo, I met up with an old buddy from College. He had been in LA for eleven years and he knew a lot of fun places to take me. My husband was getting a lot of ink, so we had a lot of time. It was Sweet! He knew everyone! He knew someone that worked at Paramount, so he and I just drove on in and walked around. Again, the actor inside of me wanted to run on the set and say, “I’ll do whatever you want me to do!” I was itching to show this town my talent. Everywhere we drove there were “Star Wagons”, folks standing outside some building talking to themselves (auditions). Models holding their portfolio off to a “Go See”. This was the business.

Now, this is what I noticed, no telling what else was going around this extremely eccentric city. But this was show business.

As my friend and I were talking, he asked me why I never came here to “try it out”. His voice was so careful, afraid that maybe he was going to upset me. This was my dream after all, to come out to LA and “make it”. So, had I lost my dream, did I settle? Was I now a stay at home mom that watched earnestly the Academy Awards wishing that were me? The answer, was no.

To be honest I figured out that I just didn’t have what it takes. At least that’s what I told him. But, I just simply fell in love with my life. I absolutely love what I do! Really. It was really hard to convince him of that, he kept saying, “But it was your dream…you never even tried it.”

I didn’t have to try it.

It was neat sitting in that bar in the middle of the day looking out at the Hollywood sign and just thinking….Thanks for my life!

Joanne’s

Posted on 20th February 2008 by christy in Random

So I’m having a clown party for my soon to be four year old and am trying to put together a costume. I do not sew, so I have to be very creative with getting this clown thing put together. I just need to run to the fabric store for a few things to finish things up. I never spend much time in the acutally fabric section of the store, why would I? Instead, my son and I look at decorations and put silly things on our head. I find what I need and proceed to the cutting area. While waiting, I notice a very paticular phenonion. All the women before me are telling the fabric people all about what they are going to sew. Who cares!? For crying out loud, just get your fabric and go home and make your blanket for you cousin’s, husband’s new little baby. I was not really bothered by this, I was only thinking of the poor girl who just wants her shift to be over so she can go to Starbucks and check her messages. Then it was my turn. I plop my fun polka dot, and shiny red fabric on the table. The girl looks at me and says, “Wheww…nice” And that’s all it took… and out it came. I told her all about our clown party and Luke’s cute little overalls, and how I was going to make a bow, and look at these fun patches. Oh-my-gosh, I couldn’t stop. Somebody needed to help me. I was so excited. Excited to share this joy with someone! Someone who really cares about my silly little clown costume.

Build-A-Bear

Posted on 11th February 2008 by christy in Random

Ok, so Luke and I go to a birthday party at Build-A- Bear. I’m not sure what to expect, except I know I don’t have to pay for any of the shenanigans. So excited that my son and I get to experience all this show biz, we get to the party. Luke grabbed a brown bear, then was told to grab a heart and name his bear. “Heart”, he decides…great… on to the stuffing. Next came the fun bath and then picking out the clothes…

Hmm…Should I be worried?